sex and the city wisedom

there is a scene in an epsidoe of sex and the city where carrie someone breaks up with carrie and she still wants to be friends with them and miranda dosesnt agree with that she says something along the lines of...
"we loved, it didnt work out i need you to not exsit"

i think thats how i feel, i am aware the ex is living in stoon but i dont need to hear about it or even run into him and if i do i feel like im given every right to turn and walk the other way even if he has seen me. i relize that i should be a stronger person almost a year after the fact but screw that he lied, cheated and then lied about cheating. i do belive that im not bitter and angry anymore and maybe all these feelings have just been brought about b/c Troy is visiting in any case.....

"we loved, it didnt work out i need you to not exsit"