well i made a choice over the last couple days....im moving home till january.
i am 25 and moving back in with my parents for the second time.
its no permanent, its only temporary and i feel like its the best option for me in the long run. my plan is to move to the lake for the summer, work up there till the end of sept then work for mom in a bigger capacity that i have been, hopefully i will save enough money in this time to be able to get my own place in january once i get back to doing the work i really want to do.
i havent told anyone expect my parents and my best friend, not even my current roomate/good friend....im really nervous about it....i dont know what to say and i feel things will be awkward between us after i say something....im hoping to tell her tomorrow.....
do i feel like i wasted the last 3 months? of course but there is nothing i can do about it now....i feel this unsettledness that im feeling is part of the reason i am unhappy....maybe i need professional help but we will see how things go this summer and take stock again in the fall....
i just feel like this is the best thing for me long term and its only temporary.....
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I've thought about moving back in with my parents a few times...
Then I remember that the world tips on its axis and Armageddon looms whenever my mother and I are in the same room together for more than a few hours.
Good luck! I still live at home with my parents, sucks, but definitely the best way to save money. And if I could spend all summer at the lake I'd totally do it!!
Hey!
Hope you don't get creaped out, but I browsed through your blog during finals this April (it was way more fun than studying.)
I just stumbled onto this post and I just wanted to say... you are soooo not alone. I'm turning 25 shortly and I just finished moving into my parents basement after 5 years about 3 hours ago. Actually, the parallels of it all made me laugh outloud, since I just finished ranting to my mom about how I'm devolving and failing at adulthood. [Take me as proof that it's a pretty common experience. Besides, parent's are great! Even if a little overbearing, they usually have very competitive meal plans. ;)
Hang in there; you're in good company.
Megs
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